A CURE FOR CANCER

Tuesday, 20 November 2012

3rd year running

Been off work with man flu if there is such an illness .had it for about a week and doctor says just keep taking the fluids and i should be fine it was a woman doctor `am sure a man would have had more sympathy `:). anyway been using the time off work wisely decorating the kitchen could have had someone in to do it but I wanted to do it myself save a bit of money  I know if it was left to Scot he would have had the guy in  anyhow hes already had lots of work from us like new carpets fitted and laminated flooring . been living hear several months now its scots mums house needed a fair bit doing to it as it was a old house but were getting there.


Ben & Mark have turned 15 had a grate Party invited most of there friends and all had a good time Mark got a bit drunk sick everywhere Mum & Martin wernt impressed still I did the same when I was that age more than once Ben helps Martin at the weekends he does loft conversions as long as martian pays him Ben`s happy help .

for the 3rd year I have been doing something started by Jayman (gifts for Larry) and each year you get a few toys or Games together and donate them to somewhere that would be put  to good use I usually ended up spending about 20-30 pounds on the toys and games .anyway this year I have used my brain a bit more `dont do that allot :)' but remember the group I work with well I asked ruth who runs the group If i could do something ask them to help me out Ive been thinking about it for some time asking some of the group to help me  also I wanted to bring  Larry`s story to the Group discussions also Gabe got mentioned It wasnt so bad as i had got to know some of the people who attend they are only young teens 13-17 years old and are gay or bi boys & girls and some have been through a fair bit with there family some were kicked out and homeless Thats were Ruth came in finding them somewhere to stay she`s a social worker so works with kids put in care exc .
one of the group steven 17 now anyway he`s in foster care and I have got quite attached to him only a few years older then me but has had a shit life always struggled  anyway we helped him get into collage. sorted out a cv for him and after a few knock backs got himself 
a job at a local supermarket evenings and some weekends  the money`s helping him with collage and people are trusting him again  weve helped others to with various problems 
anyway they are all getting a Toy or a game and they are going to a local charity.

Also I have decided to do something else something I really could have done before When I was 13 Mum had a breast  cancer scare she was fine in the end but I didnt deal with the whole thing that well .so I wanted to do something manchester has a children s hospital and 
a department for treating cancer I wanted to do something to put something else back  so last week I attended an auction  for children in need  with my mum and decided to join in with the biding its something mum enjoys buying something at knocked down price usually liquidation stock anyhow I did a bit of bidding for charity and got some stuff am giving to the cancer unit stuff like video games cd`s books worth several hundred  but I didnt pay that .

my dads well driving more good to see him with a smile on his face doing something he loves  long distances arnt good for him now  he needs another driver usually sharon his wife love her to bits 

Scot now works for emergency services like on the switchboards says it can be stressful at times but arnt all jobs at some point .  


9 comments:

  1. Just so you know, I saw this, need to read it in detail while not under the influence of really good Kentucky Bourbon Whiskey!

    Will tell you how awesome this is tomorrow!!!!
    Peace <3
    Jay

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  2. Hello Lee
    Nice to hear from you, I'm glad that things seem to be going pretty well for you and yours. And many congratulations on the charity/voluntary things you're getting involved in - Larry's story is particularly poignant for me, and was one of the main reasons I got into blogging in the first place, nearly three years ago. Keep up the good work!

    Love & best wishes
    Sammy B

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  3. jay hope you enjoyed the whiskey could never get used to that stuff guess its an acquired taste. as I mentioned I told the group about gifts for Larry some have been subject to some kind of abuse so I guessed that they could handle it all .

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  4. Hi Lee!

    An awesome post, you are doing *fabulously* (lol!) and I am proud and fortunate to count you as a friend!

    I, too, will be doing the gifts for Larry thing for a local homeless shelter. Many thanks to Jay for talking this up every year, but also major kudos to Paul and Richard for keeping Larry's memory alive.

    It's great that Dad is driving...make sure he is *walking* a lot, too!

    Love,

    -Andy

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  5. Andy am sure Larry will be chuffed to bits that people still remember him .

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  6. Lee, this is really outstanding. You are a wonderful guy, and to bring Larry's and Gabe's stories to others to help them realize that you don't have to end it all is awesome. And helping out with Gifts for Larry is pretty cool,too. I'll be doing my shopping soon, and heading to the Ronald McDonald House to drop them off.

    It's great to hear that everything is going well for you, and your family. I know you've had some tough times all the way around, and it's pretty cool that things have settled down a bit. Wish your brothers a happy birthday from me, please, so they can look at you oddly wondering why! HAHAHAHAHA

    I hope you see the email I sent. It's got a special message in it for you.

    Thanks for posting, and putting a smile on my face!
    Peace <3
    Jay

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  7. Ronald McDonald house rofl only in america .. believe me Jay when I discussed Larry & Gabe to the group they took it well some have lost good friends close friends its doing them the power of good just discussing it .

    oh and a message to you know who Its good to hear from you xx

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  8. Missing you, Lee. Hope you'll come back, or at least email me!
    Peace <3
    Jay

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  9. Hi Lee,

    Are you still out there?

    I'm trying to roust up what's left of the old gang.

    Love,

    -Andy

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